Power Packed career Women



Michael Noer of Forbes has come up with a strange kind of a warning for all those guys who are planning to tie the nuptial knot with that independent, well settled, financially secure female from his their own office.



He has come up with nine stringent reasons why one should avoid marrying a career woman. Here are the reasons that the chap has put forth, along with the reasons you can find some inputs from my side as well...which are no doubts countering what Michael say, but no way intended to offend him.



Reason #1



She will be hard to win over as successful women have higher standards for an acceptable match than those who work less and earn less. What’s wrong in searching out someone better placed than you, after all it’s a matter of one’s lifetime.



Reason #2



Your marriage will be more vulnerable to divorce in comparison to those marriages where females sit at home and take care of the home. Here I would say, divorce is a consequence of incompatibility and lack of understanding, which can crop up even in those marriages where the woman stays at home.



Reason #3



A financially secure woman has more prospective to look out of her marriage, so the chances of her cheating upon you increases to some extent. This rule is applicable to males as well, can’t they move out of marriage...even they are surrounded by chicks throughout the day?



Reason #4



More is your wife inclined towards her career, more are the chances that she will delay having kids. This can be a possibility, but mind you “a possibility that can be rooted out with healthy discussion”.



Reason #5



He says, your house will be dirtier if you marry a workingwoman. Grow up man! Why the hell you are earning so much...simply hire a maid and your housekeeping work will be done.



Reason #6



Once kids come into the scene, your career-oriented wife is more likely to remain upset. That’s can happen with anybody if kids are irritating. And after all she is also human...how can you expect her to be jovial all the time.



Reason #7



You’ll crib all the time if she earns more than you...this is human tendency. But if you love her truly, then you’ll feel happy for her success and her success will be a motivation for you. This holds good the other way round as well.



Reason # 8



You are more likely to fall ill, if your wife works, for the simple reason that she will not be able to give you adequate attention and care. I think both of you are grown up enough to care good care of yourselves, so blaming things on each other will do no good.





No doubts the reasons that Michael suggested have a backing coming from well proven scientific studies, but at some point of time it seems that the man is making an intentional and forceful effort to put career oriented working women in a negative light...which is simply not done. It’s totally up to the man, if he can do without an earning woman and thinks that he is potential enough to support his family entirely with his earnings, then he must go ahead or else I don’t find there are any reasons going against a working wife.



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